Carlos Castaneda, an American anthropologist and writer, said “We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.”

A beautiful example of communicating the complex simply.

I meet a lot of people who are fairly miserable in their job, marriage or indeed life. Fortunately, the ones that I meet generally want to make themselves strong. And as a result, they become radiators in life.

Be a radiator not a drain.